self study versus tuition

hope the person won't mind what i'm talking about...
i really can't think of a suitable word to express my fuss over this issue...
it isn't my problem at all actually but i sincerely hope for the best for you..
what does it have to do with a tuition center's popularity and a student's achievements in academic?
like what i said, when is it the time parents let their children help themselves with a little tiny bit of independence?
if you think tuition center helps the child more, does that mean you don't trust your child's abilities to study on their own?
it truly hurts a heart when people are not being trusted by others...
everyone needs a chance to learn to grow, even if they fail, they learn...
if they never lose a step before, by the time they realize they are going to lose balance, surely they won't know what to do...
if they make you a promise, why don't let them prove themselves to you?
over protective or taking precautions on failing doesn't work in the long term..
please believe that you child can, they have been waiting to let you see the sparkle in themselves...
wont it be much happier a child will be if they live in a trustworthy family?
by the way, a tuition center will be helpful but it is just an additional help in students studies...
SURELY NOT A TOOL TO TORTURE STUDENTS SOULS...

independent? dependent?

have to borrow chew's computer to blog.. so charm... but anyway thanks chew...
now i am growing dependent onto chew... is it?
tomoro going to genting... not very happy now coz the person that i asked din go...not her fault actually but i still a bit angry... dunno for what...
her parents? maybe... they say she mus'nt stay out of their sight... no far journeys...
guess she said alot and made them angry... they are taking her away to KL for the rest of the hols...blah blah blah...
i guess they dun wan their daughter to stay friends with someone like me as i knew they call me 野孩子.. i dont think whats wrong being a 野孩子, at least i am independent...
what makes a person grow is the experience, the pain, the satisfaction they get from all what they have gone through... do you think keeping a child until they were adults means they are already safe to fly on their own?
NO.
if they dont have the chance to learn, never will they be able to fly...
do you think a child will be automatically independent when they become adults?
absolutely not...
so why keep them at home?
let them explore and try on their own....
danger comes, but it is more dangerous if the child doesn't know how to face danger...
independent? dependent?
i'd wish her parents saw my blog....
treat her the way she deserves to be, not the way u all wanted her to be...

my blog.... wuwu....

guess what, i cant online anymore....
the stupid person who locked his wireless and i cant steal it to online anymur....
but today is exception coz i am using ppl's computer to blog.
i like to blog.... anyway, feel so sad cant blog anymore....
viewed sum ppl's blog... find it very interesting and feel very zi bei for my blog as it is quite boring or very boring...
sumtimes i feel so sorry for myself....
but from now onwards i will try to online haha...
to write my blog more as those very interesting things that happened cant be written and recorded if i dont blog....( also that means i am too lazy to pick up a pencil and write..)
hope you will all still try and see whether got new post anot...haha...

ps: i am sending dedications to our drum trainers as they taught us the performance for our AMC's 71th aniversary... thanks to 黎适吾, 罗扬耀,刘振成, and the last one is erm... iforgot his name but it is sumwhat like chong zhe ming if not mistaken.

i am going now... wish i don't fish infront of others lo.... hehez...