self study versus tuition

hope the person won't mind what i'm talking about...
i really can't think of a suitable word to express my fuss over this issue...
it isn't my problem at all actually but i sincerely hope for the best for you..
what does it have to do with a tuition center's popularity and a student's achievements in academic?
like what i said, when is it the time parents let their children help themselves with a little tiny bit of independence?
if you think tuition center helps the child more, does that mean you don't trust your child's abilities to study on their own?
it truly hurts a heart when people are not being trusted by others...
everyone needs a chance to learn to grow, even if they fail, they learn...
if they never lose a step before, by the time they realize they are going to lose balance, surely they won't know what to do...
if they make you a promise, why don't let them prove themselves to you?
over protective or taking precautions on failing doesn't work in the long term..
please believe that you child can, they have been waiting to let you see the sparkle in themselves...
wont it be much happier a child will be if they live in a trustworthy family?
by the way, a tuition center will be helpful but it is just an additional help in students studies...
SURELY NOT A TOOL TO TORTURE STUDENTS SOULS...